I just love this post, "Saying “I love you” with a toilet: of indirect displays of love in Chinese families," over at the Speaking of China blog. I love it because it perfectly illustrates how Chinese express an emotion (in this case love) differently than in the West.
Differently, not necessarily better or worse.
The post is about an American woman, married to a Chinese man, and how her in-laws show their affection for her by first installing a stand-up toilet, and then adding on rooms to their house. A Chinese client of mine (who has been living in the United States for probably 15 years now) told me of how her father never once told her mother that he loved her, but that her mother always knew from the way he acted.
There has to be a way to relate this post to doing business in China and I would love (see how easy we Westerners are with that word) for someone to expound on it.